Mixed dating signals
Here are six reasons why there is no such thing as mixed signals in the dating world: If someone's words (or text messages) lead you to believe that he or she is into you, but the actions prove otherwise, listen to the actions. A female or male player might pretend to be interested in you or even pretend to care about you because he or she might have some sort of ulterior motive.
Do not let yourself get confused because someone said “Hey gorgeous, I'd love to see you sometime soon” but the person doesn't actually ever make plans to see you. If someone is playing you, it can create a false sense of intimacy.
No, my dear, what's frustrating is the fact that you are so amazing, yet wasting your time with someone who isn't into you at all. It is a concept that people, who can't tell whether or not a prospect is interested or not, bemoan.
Newsflash: If you can't tell, it almost always means that the person is not interested – and you should view that as a clear signal, not a foggy one.
But not when the one you like is blowing hot and cold with you.
Are you getting mixed signals from a guy or girl you like? But that’s only when you feel like you can’t understand what’s happening.
If you feel like there’s something going on, the person you like should feel the same way too.
When both of you have secret interactions through eyes or subtle gestures at times and then completely ignore each other at other times, you’re building up a flirty game of mixed signals.
While I didn't consciously tell myself, "Well I just want someone to hang out with," that is exactly what I was doing.
But once I started to feel like myself again, it was nice to have a romantic interest around, at least so I didn't feel so alone.
In these "relationships," I knew things weren't really going anywhere.
That might come across the communication channel as overly desperate which doesnt exactly make a great first impression.
Men often comment that women say one thing and mean another.